Should You Share A Space With Baby?

Let's face it, baby will probably sleep with or near you for the first six months to year of his life. So does he really need his own room? The Hatch looks at why and why not to share a room with baby.

Dad putting crib together with mom looking on


Whether or not you plan to follow the attachment parenting method, many new parents co-sleep with their newborns or place a bassinet for baby in their own room for the first few weeks or months of baby's life. This is a wonderful bonding and comforting experience for both baby and parents. It is also convenient for mom to nurse baby in the middle of the night without disrupting too much of the night pattern.

If you're tight on space in your home and don't have an entire room to dedicate to baby, putting a crib in your room can be the perfect solution. If you have another child who has a room of his own, consider having the children share the room, though you can still have baby sleep in your room for the first few weeks or months so as not to have the older sibling disturbed in the night when baby wakes to feed.

Why not

As a newborn, baby is not going to need much space of his own. But as he grows, you will both probably need your own space. It's also important that the parents maintain their own personal space for well, you know...

Even if you don't have much space in your home, create a "room" using curtains or a room divider to make a personal space for baby. It doesn't have to be elaborate, and you can do without a lot of the big bulky nursery furniture like a changing table (you'll probably change him on the floor or the bed or wherever you happen to be in your home more than you will on the formal changing table anyhow!). Instead of a dresser, add extra shelving and rods to closets for baby's clothes, diapers and more, and add shelves and cubicles to walls for toys and picture frames.

When sharing a space with baby, make an extra effort to carve out alone time with your man -- without baby in the room -- to maintain your connection.

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