Introducing an old dog to a new baby: 5 ways to go from canine to crib
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Amy Hinz Horn
It is possible to teach an old dog new tricks, especially when it comes to having a new baby in the house. While Rover may have been king of the house for quite some time, he’s going to have to get used to sharing his throne — and the palace — when a baby is on the way. Luckily, going from canine to crib doesn’t have to be a “ruff” transition. The following tips will help everyone in the family — including Rover — make way for baby.
Start preparing as soon as possible
Of course, it’s a great idea for everyone if preparations for the new addition to the family can start sooner rather than later. And just like the adults in the house need time to adjust and make necessary changes, Rover needs time. too. Think about any routines and rituals that involve Rover and will change after Little Lucy comes home. For example, if Rover always sits in the middle of the backseat on car rides, is that going to be possible with a car seat in place? Or, if Rover’s daily walk takes place at 5:00 on the dot each evening, will that still be the case with Little Lucy around? There’s no need to wait for the baby to arrive before new routines can be established. In fact, it is better for Rover's adjustment if these new changes are made gradually and he has time to learn the “new normal” in the house.
Be fair
New rules may have to be set to make the house safe, healthy and happy for both Rover and Little Lucy to coexist. Be consistent and patient as Rover learns them. If you don’t want Rover to run off with Little Lucy’s toys, don’t leave them on the ground. If you don’t want Rover to take over Little Lucy’s nursery, keep the room off limits at all times. Rover will follow the new rules so long as you enforce them consistently over time. Remember, this baby thing is new to Rover, too, so cut him some slack …but, stick to your guns.
Share the love
Rover may have been the sole recipient of your constant love, affection and attention for the last several years. And now he has to – yelp – share?! Sure, he does. And he won’t have any problem letting Little Lucy get hugged, kissed, bounced, rocked, cradled, cuddled and cooed as long as he’s still on the receiving end of treats, toys, pats, scratches, walks and good old-fashioned play time. You will have plenty of love to go around. Time, on the other hand, may be an issue. But, as long as Rover can still get the attention he needs — maybe at a different time or in a different room or in a different way – he and Little Lucy will both feel the love.
Ask for help
You are not the first parents to bring home a new baby to an old dog. Ask the experts around you for help, advice, tips and any ideas that will make life easier for everyone. Consult your veterinarian. Check with the humane educator at your local animal shelter or humane society. Chat with the dog trainers at the Petco, PetSmart or other well-respected pet stores in your area. They have probably seen it and heard it all and may be able to tell you one small thing that will make a big difference for your whole family.
Time and time again, families figure out a way to have everyone — Mom, Dad, Little Lucy and Rover — live happily ever after. Common sense can go a long way in making the dog-baby blended family a fabulous experience. While Rover has and always will be man’s best friend, he will do his best to be baby’s as well.
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